A Different Date

A Different Date is an enlightening discussion event brought to you by the Practical Psychology Club. This is a unique opportunity to deepen your self-understanding while connecting with other singles seeking meaningful relationships.

Important Criteria

• 🔹 Maximum 12 participants per event.
• 🔹 6 women and 6 men (heterosexual and looking for a date). Ages 28-40.
• 🔹 Participants should embody openness, curiosity, and a desire for personal growth through meaningful conversations.
• 🔹 Engage in a facilitated discussion based on open-ended questions and reflective insights.

First Session

Subject: Who Am I in a Relationship? - Would I date somebody like myself?

• Understanding ourselves before seeking the right partner.

Part 1 – Expectations and Positioning

• What do I hope to find in a relationship?
• Do I see love primarily as an exchange (“What do I get?”) or as something we cultivate together?
• Am I looking for someone who complements my weaknesses, or someone I can grow with?

Part 2 – Looking Back

• Did I feel loved in my childhood? In which moments?
• Have I learned that love is unconditional, or have I perceived it as conditional? How does this affect my life today?

Part 3 – My Inner Relationship Blueprint

• How, and through whose example, did I construct my vision of an ideal relationship?
• Is that vision still relevant in my life today?
• What type of family life do I envision?

Final Reflection

• If the person you are today walked into the room as a stranger, would you want to date them? Why or why not?
• Am I becoming the kind of person I would love to meet?

Note: This is an educational activity, not a speed-dating event or matchmaking service. The aim is to foster self-awareness and genuine connections among singles.

Participation Fee: 150 SEK (including VAT and a non-alcoholic beverage)

💳 Swish: 123-112 58 63

I look forward to meeting you!
Vilija Oke (MD, PhD)
📍 Location: Stora Nygatan 43, Stockholm
🔗 RSVP on Meetup — the organizer requests advance RSVP.