Polyverse: Love without Scarcity 🪽 + Potluck

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Hi Polyverse Community!
The idea behind "Love without Scarcity" emerged when Vi and I asked ourselves: if fear is removed from jealousy, what's left? 🔮
Conversely, what would it feel like if love were truly abundant?
And what did we learn about love that isn't actually ours?

Love sets us free and gives us wings to reach the highest heights. It can heal our wounds and show us how deeply connected we are. 🕯️
The power of love makes it something so special, so wonderful, that we become insanely scared to lose it.
Much of our pain in relationships centers on that: the desire to stay in love and the fear of losing.
That fear shapes everything: who we let in, how close we allow them, what we ask of the people we love most. 💔
For those of us navigating ENM and polyamory, this becomes especially visible. The invitation to love more freely also makes scarcity patterns hard to ignore.
At this meetup, we want to hear your real experiences. Of control, of loss, of the moments where fear ran the show, and of the moments where something wiser took over.
How have you found peace within love? What helped you move from holding on to opening up? 🕊️
We'll explore together:
Unlearning possession · Love as a practice, not a contract · How our agreements shift as we feel safer · What abundance actually looks like in real relationships

Our community is wonderfully diverse and yet very niche in its pursuit of love and its deeper understanding. We're a mix of people in long-term poly relationships, those just opening up, solo-poly explorers, and everything in between. Here you can always find at least one other soul able to understand you.✨
Timeline:
18:30 Arrivals, catching up
19:00 Welcome + time to reflect (please be there by then)
19:15 Group exchange (2 rounds of 35min, with a short break)
20:40 Light closing circle (5–10 min to share reflections with the big group)
20:50 Open socializing (+optional more peer support)
Open end (22:00 or later)
Please arrive no later than 19:00 if you’d like to join the peer support sessions, or after 21:00 if you’d only like to join the socializing.
📍Fhain (location shown once accepted)
🍒 We'd love to have a little potluck together, so bring your snacks & other delicious goodies

We are four polyamorous people passionate about - yes, you guessed it - Polyamory! We are all experienced organizers, nerds about science and having a positive impact on the world, and even bigger nerds about relationships.
We believe that polyamory has the potential to change our social structures for the better, such as creating more cooperation and togetherness across society. Loving more openly can reduce loneliness and insecurities. Yet we see that most people who choose to be polyamorous often do it alone and without community wisdom and support. We want to change that!
We don’t want to ‘convert’ anyone - instead, we want everyone to have access to the resources and support they need to figure out what relationship style works best for them. And we want to help ourselves stay happy and supported while being polyamorous in a mono-normative world.
Love,
Sana, Vitória & co

PS: Feedback and suggestions are welcome - thanks for helping us grow!

Our core values (work in progress, feedback welcome):
☔ Embracing difficult emotions: Jealousy can be super healing, helping us overcome fears and insecurities. In polyamory, embracing all emotions, even the tough ones, helps us grow. Let’s use those feelings to become more compassionate and confident. We’re in this together!
💜 Mastering communication: Communication is key in polyamory! Honesty, clarity, and compassion make everything smoother. Let’s get better at sharing our boundaries, needs, and desires—it’ll help improve all areas of our lives.
🔮 Open to science: Polyamory is still uncharted territory! So using evidence and being open to different perspectives makes it safer and more enriching. We’re excited to learn and grow together.
🪻 Self-leadership: Managing emotions is so important in polyamory! Emotional intelligence, mindfulness, journaling, asking for help, and self-validation can help us stay calm and balanced, and navigate complex situations with ease and compassion.