The Integration Gap: Why Life-Changing Experiences Don’t Always Change Your Life

🦋 Why do the most meaningful moments of our lives sometimes leave us feeling more lost, not less?

After experiences like a big trip, a relationship ending, a new baby, moving, a career change, or a powerful moment in nature, many return to ordinary life feeling restless, sad, confused, or strangely unlike themselves. This disorientation can feel unsettling, yet it’s not unusual.

In this insightful lecture, Dr. Suzy Ross, professor, author, and social scientist with over 20 years of experience studying transformation, explains that this aftermath is not a sign of failure but a crucial phase in the journey of becoming someone new.

Using her research-based Figure-8 Model of Transformation from her book The Map to Wholeness, Dr. Ross provides a framework to understand where you are in your change process, why your old life may feel inadequate, and how true transformation shifts from idea to lived experience. ✨

🕰 Event Details
What should I expect?

• 7:00-7:35 → Arrival & Chats
• 7:35-8:20 → Lecture
• 8:20-9:00 → Q&A and more chatting

Who's invited?
Everyone interested in learning, meeting new people, and having fun on weeknights is welcome! Many attendees came solo to our last event, so don’t hesitate to join.

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No parking on-site; street parking or public transportation is recommended.

Do I have to be 21+?
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🍸 Alcohol & Safety
Alcohol may be served according to California law. By attending, you assume all risks associated with a public indoor event.

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