
People Pleasing Is Ruining Your Sex Life
π« Are unhelpful patterns affecting your sex life? Join Darshana Avila in an insightful lecture exploring how people pleasing, perfectionism, and overcompensating might be holding you back from true intimacy and connection.
Through engaging reflection, humor, and practical embodied exercises, you'll learn to recognize and shift these patterns, paving the way for more pleasure, power, and purpose in your relationships. Known for her candid and grounded approach, Darshana combines insights from erotic embodiment, trauma healing, and self-actualization. Her work has been highlighted in major platforms such as Sex, Love & Goop, The Guardian, and The New Yorker. π€
π What to Expect
- π 7:00-7:35: Arrival & Chats
- π 7:35-8:20: Lecture
- π 8:20-9:00: Q&A and more chatting
π₯ Who's Invited?
This event welcomes anyone eager to learn, meet new people, and enjoy a fun weeknight activity. Many solo attendees joined our last lecture; don't hesitate to come alone and connect with amazing people!
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ΏοΈ Parking Info
Please note that there's no parking on-site. We recommend street parking or using public transport.
πΊπΈ Age Requirement
This venue is open to all ages! However, those wishing to purchase alcohol must be 21+ and show valid ID.
πΈ Photography Notice
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π€ Community Guidelines
As a participant, please commit to creating a welcoming, curious, and respectful environment. Disruptive or unsafe behavior will not be tolerated.
π· Alcohol & Safety
Alcohol will be served based on California law. Attend at your own risk and ensure your safety and conduct throughout the event.
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π Location: 473A Haight St
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