The Kindling: A Sauna Dating Experience for Queer Men

🌈 Join us for The Kindling, a unique sauna dating experience crafted exclusively for queer men! In a world dominated by apps and surface-level interactions, we’re bringing back authentic connection in its most basic form: a meaningful, analog experience that fosters genuine relationships.

What’s in store for you?
💨 Guided breathwork to ground and center yourself
🔥 Invigorating sauna with aromatic elements designed to relieve tension
🧊 Ice bath speed dating for mindful introductions
💭 Intentional practices to meet others authentically
🧘‍♂️ A soothing closing meditation to reflect on the evening
📵 Phone-free zone for genuine connections

Your hosts for the evening:
✨ Brian Lamy, a passionate breathwork facilitator and therapist dedicated to fostering deeper connections among queer men.
✨ Othership Guides will lead breathwork, ice baths, and connection activities throughout the night.

Is this for you?
✅ You’re single and eager for a fresh way to connect
✅ Fed up with endless app scrolling and small talk
✅ Excited to meet other queer men in real life
✅ Open to self-discovery and learning about others
✅ A touch nervous but ready to dive in

Is this not for you?
❌ Seeking a night of drinking or substance use
❌ Prefer staying on the surface and avoiding deep conversation
❌ Not willing to participate actively in the sauna and discussions
❌ Can’t part with your phone for a couple of hours
❌ Here only to swipe in person

What to bring:
🩳 Just your bathing suit and an open mind—leave the rest to us!

Important details:
🌈 This event welcomes all gay, bi, trans, and queer men, as well as non-binary individuals.
👉 Alcohol and substance-free—arrive sober and please avoid using substances beforehand. Anyone under the influence will be respectfully asked to leave.
❤️ We prioritize an inclusive and respectful atmosphere; anyone disrespectful may be asked to exit.
🙋 Check out what to expect and FAQs for Othership here.

💚 We look forward to an evening of connection and growth!